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Sun Sep 07, 2008
Who is IMOM?
Welcome to IMOM
mission statement
"Helping people help pets".
To better the lives of sick, injured and abused companion animals. We
are dedicated to insure that no companion animal has to be euthanized
simply because their caretaker is financially challenged.
To educate on the importance of spay and
neuter in relation the proven health risks for
animals who have not been spayed or neutered.
The advancements made in
veterinary medicine is astounding. New
procedures are being discovered more frequently than
ever. Our companions are living longer,
healthier lives than might have been possible a decade
ago.
These advancements come with a
hefty price tag. Veterinarians have to charge
according to the service they provide. A very
large portion of the public cannot afford to take
advantage of this new technology. Simply stated
-- they don't have the money. Their companion
either continues to suffer, or they die. It
shouldn't be that way.
This is where IMOM and other
organizations come in. We will always do
everything we can to help remove the money barrier
standing between your companion and their health.
Since IMOM was founded in 1998 a
small group of dedicated volunteers have worked
tirelessly to achieve seemingly impossible goals.
IMOM had no mentors or other organizations to
pattern ourselves after. No one was doing what
we wanted to do for sick, injured and abused companion
animals. We had to turn our focus to the one tool we
all possessed if we
wanted to make a difference. That tool was a strong desire to help people
help pets. We stayed focused and we made it work!
IMOM has no sponsors and has never
had the honor of receiving any grant money. Our
funds all come from private donors. Ordinary
people who are willing to reach out and give someone's
pet the chance they deserve to live a long, healthy
life. I suppose that makes them not so ordinary
after all!
My heartfelt thanks go out to all
our volunteers and supporters. More than 1470
companion animals are alive and pain free today because of you.
You have made my dream a reality.
For the animals,
Jacki Hadra - IMOM Founder
In Memory of Magic Sun Sep 07, 2008
Pet Poison Control Answers from the ASPCA
I think my pet has ingested something potentially dangerous,
but she seems normal. What should I do first: call the APCC or rush her
to my local emergency veterinarian?
If you suspect that your pet may have become exposed to a harmful
substance, but is not showing signs of illness, stay calm! Contact
your local veterinarian or the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center
hotline at (888) 426-4435 first. Not all exposure situations require
an immediate trip to the clinic.
What should I do if I think my pet ate something poisonous?
If your animal is having seizures, losing consciousness, is
unconscious or is having difficulty breathing, telephone ahead and
bring your pet immediately to your local veterinarian or emergency
veterinary clinic. If necessary, he or she may call the ASPCA Animal
Poison Control Center.
Otherwise, call your veterinarian or the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center hotline at (888) 426-4435.
What information will I need when I call you?
When you call the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center hotline at
(888) 426-4435, it’s most helpful to be ready with the following
information: - the species, breed, age, sex, weight and number of animals involved - the animal’s symptoms -
information regarding the exposure, including the agent (if known), the
amount of the agent involved and the time elapsed since the time of
exposure.
Have the product container/packaging available for reference.
Collect in a sealable plastic bag any material your pet may have
vomited or chewed.
About the APCC
How do I get in touch with ASPCA animal poison control experts?
The APCC experts are on call 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. If you
think that your pet may have ingested a potentially poisonous
substance, make the call that can make all the difference: (888)
426-4435. The call is toll-free. A $60 consultation fee may be applied
to your credit card.
What kind of services does the APCC provide?
The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center provides 24-hour-a-day,
year-round advice on animal poison-related emergencies to pet parents,
veterinarians and animal clinic professionals. With experience in more
than one million cases involving pesticides, drugs, plants, metals and
other potentially hazardous items, our specially trained staff of
veterinary toxicologists has access to an extensive database, which
they can quickly access to help diagnose problems and give treatment
advice.
The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center also provides corporate
services such as consulting on legal cases, product formula issues,
product liability and reporting on alleged cases of animal illness due
to product exposure.
How much does it cost to use the APCC hotline?
The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center hotline operates 24 hours a
day, 7 days a week, at (888) 426-4435. There is a $60 consultation fee,
payable by credit card, for this service. This includes follow-up
consultation should you or your vet need further assistance with your
pet’s case.
How many cases does the APCC handle daily?
The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center manages an average of 375 cases each day.
Where is the APCC located?
The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center is located in Urbana, IL.
Where does the APCC get its information about toxins and their effects on animals?
The ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center is staffed by 30
veterinarians, including 13 who are board-certified in general and
veterinary toxicology. In addition, our experts use Antox, our unique
veterinary medical database system of more than one million animal
exposure case histories. With the combined knowledge of our experts
and our medical database, we are able to provide the most timely and
accurate information on the potential effects of poisons and how to
manage exposures to them.
Does the APCC test on animals?
No, the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center does not test on animals.
The center is committed to protecting and improving the lives of
animals through the use of case data reviews as an alternative to
traditional animal research.
I live in Illinois—can I bring my pet to the APCC to be seen by a vet?
While the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center is staffed with
veterinary experts, our facility is a call center. We work with you
and your local vet via phone to provide your pet with the best poison
emergency care possible.
I just spoke with a staff member on the ASPCA Animal Poison
Control Center hotline, but I have more questions. Can I call back?
Absolutely. Our consultation fee covers as many additional calls
pertaining to your pet's current case as are needed to provide the best
care and answer any questions that you or your local vet may have.
During your initial call, you or your vet will be provided with a
special follow-up telephone number to use should you need any further
assistance with your pet's case.
General Information
Are there certain potentially harmful substances that pets get into more than others?
In 2007, the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center managed more than
130,000 cases. The top calls of 2007 involved the following common
household goods and products:
Prescription and over-the-counter drugs, both of
the human and pet variety, including painkillers, cold and flu
preparations and antidepressants. The ASPCA cautions pet owners to
never give their four-legged family members any type of medication
without first talking with a veterinarian. All drugs should be kept out
of reach, preferably in closed cabinets above countertops.
Insecticides and insect control products such as
flea and tick preparations and insect baits. Some species of animals
can be particularly sensitive to certain types of insecticides, so it
is vital that you follow label instructions exactly and never use any
product not specifically formulated for your pet.
Common household plants such as lilies, azaleas and kalanchoe. Rhododendron, sago palm and schefflera can also be harmful to pets.
Chemical bait products designed for mice, rats and
other rodents. When using any rodenticide, place the product in areas
that are completely inaccessible to companion animals.
Common household cleaners such as bleaches,
detergents and disinfectants. Gastrointestinal distress and irritation
to the skin, eyes or respiratory tract may be possible if a curious
animal has an inappropriate encounter with such products.
I’m a veterinarian; where can I learn more?
The Veterinary Lifeline Partner Program (VLPP) gives veterinarians
and veterinary clinics immediate access to ASPCA Animal Poison Control
Center experts. When you enroll in VLPP, we establish an account for
your clinic or practice, and even if you never have to call our center,
you’ll immediately get the benefits of joining.
There’s no charge for enrollment. All you need to do is place your
practice or clinic information, including a credit card number, on file
with us. Please visit our Animal Poison Control Center online for more
information about VLPP’s benefits and enrollment.
Please also visit Veterinary Education Online,
a web-based continuing education program specifically developed for
busy veterinarians looking to enhance their knowledge and increase
their clinical skills.
What should I include in my pet’s first-aid kit?
Accidents happen, so it’s smart to be prepared in case of an
emergency. ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center experts recommend that
you invest in an emergency first-aid kit for your pet. The kit should contain: - Fresh bottle of hydrogen peroxide, 3 percent USP (to induce vomiting) - Turkey baster, bulb syringe or large medicine syringe (to administer peroxide) - Saline eye solution - Artificial tear gel (to lubricate eyes after flushing) - Mild grease-cutting dishwashing liquid (for bathing an animal after skin contamination) - Forceps (to remove stingers) - Muzzle (to protect against fear- or excitement-induced biting) - Can of your pet’s favorite wet food - Pet carrier
Always consult a veterinarian or the APCC for directions on how and
when to use any emergency first-aid item. We also suggest that you keep
the telephone number of the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center—(888)
426-4435—as well as that of your local veterinarian in a prominent
location.
Flowers/Plants
Are there any plants that are toxic to my pets that I shouldn’t keep around the house?
Being familiar with the plants in and around your home is key in
preventing your pet from consuming any plants that may be poisonous. A
great resource for learning about which plants are toxic and which ones
are not is located right on www.aspca.org/apcc. If you don't find the plant you are wondering about, feel free to email the center at napcc@aspca.org.
(Please note, this email address is solely for information about the
toxicity of particular plants. If you think your pet has been exposed
to a potentially toxic plant, call your veterinarian or the ASPCA
Animal Poison Control Center hotline at 888-426-4435).
I want to send my pet-owning friend a floral arrangement. What flowers are safe to send?
Thanks for thinking of the animals! Sending a bouquet is a wonderful idea, but it’s wise to consider that certain flowers are downright dangerous
to our animal companions. Many varieties of lilies are highly poisonous
to cats, for example, and while rose flowers may be fine, their thorns
could prove injurious. In order to ensure that you send flowers that
won't harm pets, we've worked with our experts at the ASPCA Animal
Poison Control Center to offer you some suggestions for pet-friendly selections from 1-800-FLOWERS.com. These include dendrobium orchids, violets and gerbera daisies, among others.
Use promotion code ASPCA when ordering and 1-800-FLOWERS.com will
donate 10 percent of the net proceeds from your purchase to the ASPCA.
P.S. Please note that while the flowers shown are considered to be
nontoxic, it’s important to keep in mind that even “safe” plants can
produce minor stomach upset if ingested.
Food/Drugs
What are the most common food hazards I should be aware of?
Experts at the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center urge you to avoid feeding the following foods to your pet: - Alcoholic beverages - Avocado - Chocolate (all forms) - Coffee (all forms) - Fatty foods - Macadamia nuts - Moldy or spoiled foods - Onions, onion powder - Raisins and grapes - Salt - Yeast dough - Garlic - Products sweetened with xylitol
Unless they are spoiled or moldy, milk, cheese and other dairy foods
are not considered to be poisonous to pets. However, cats do not
possess significant amounts of lactase, the enzyme that breaks down
lactose in milk. Feeding milk and milk-based products to cats can
actually cause them to vomit or have diarrhea, which in severe cases
could lead to inflammation of the pancreas. For this reason, it’s
always a good idea to check with your veterinarian before offering any
“people food” to your pets.
Why is chocolate bad for dogs?
Chocolate can contain high amounts of fat and caffeine-like
stimulants known as methylxanthines. If ingested in significant
amounts, chocolate can potentially produce clinical effects in dogs
ranging from vomiting and diarrhea to panting, excessive thirst and
urination, hyperactivity, abnormal heart rhythm, tremors, seizures and
even death in severe cases.
Typically, the darker the chocolate, the higher the potential for
clinical problems from methylxanthine poisoning. White chocolate has
the lowest methylxanthine content, while baking chocolate contains the
highest. As little as 20 ounces of milk chocolate—or only two ounces of
baking chocolate—can cause serious problems in a 10-pound dog. While
white chocolate may not have the same potential as darker forms to
cause a methylxanthine poisoning, the high fat content of lighter
chocolates could still lead to vomiting and diarrhea, as well as the
possible development of life-threatening pancreatitis, an inflammatory
condition of the pancreas.
How can I check to see if my pet food has been recalled?
It’s not a good idea to feed your dog any sort of breath freshener
that hasn’t been formulated specifically for pets. Some
breath-freshening products contain the sweetener xylitol, which has the
potential to cause a sharp drop in a dog's blood sugar. This can result
in depression, loss of coordination and seizures, and in some cases,
liver damage. We also don’t advise giving your dog breath freshening
strips. Certain breath strips contain menthol, which can be irritating
to the tissues of the mouth and the gastrointestinal tract. There are
plenty of ways to solve your dog’s breath problem without giving him
products made for people. We recommend you discuss an appropriate oral
hygiene program with your veterinarian.
Can I give my pet Ibuprofen?
In a word, NO! Ibuprofen can definitely be toxic to dogs and other
pets—even in small amounts. Depending on the dose ingested, significant
gastrointestinal damage or even kidney damage could result.
In fact, many drugs that are beneficial to humans can be harmful or
even deadly for pets. We strongly urge you to never give your pet any
medication without first speaking with his or her regular veterinarian.
Can I give my pet aspirin?
We strongly advise owners to never give their pets any
medication without first consulting with their regular veterinarian.
Many drugs, including non-steroidal anti-inflammatories like aspirin,
can cause serious or potentially life-threatening problems, depending
on the dose involved.
If you feel that your pet needs pain relief for any reason, we
highly recommend that you get in touch with your veterinarian—if you
have not already. Your vet can direct you regarding the best dose to
use or, if necessary, can prescribe a different pain reliever.
Can my pets actually chew through containers of aspirin?
Unfortunately, yes. While most human medications are contained in
child-proof bottles, these containers are not pet-proof. Pets can
easily chew and break open packaging, so medications should always be
stored in a secure cabinet above the countertop.
Around the House
What are the most common household items I should watch out for?
Medication and products containing harsh chemicals top the list, but
a few other common household hazards, like mothballs and fabric
softener sheets, might surprise you. Please visit our page on
maintaining A Poison Safe Home
to see a list of a list of common household items, plants and foods
that pet parents will want to keep curious whiskers and paws away from.
What cleaning supplies can I use that won’t hurt my pets?
The key to using household cleaners in a way that is safe to your pet is to read and follow label directions for proper use and storage.
If the label states, "Keep pets and children away from area until dry,"
those directions should be strictly adhered to in order to avoid
potential problems. Many household cleaners can be used safely when the
directions on the label are followed exactly. Products that contain
bleach can be very effective in safely disinfecting certain household
surfaces when used appropriately, but if your pet is exposed to them,
they can cause an upset stomach, drooling, vomiting or diarrhea. There
is even a danger of severe oral burns if ingested in a high-enough
concentration. Please be aware that some detergents can produce similar
signs in pets, and cats can be particularly sensitive to certain
ingredients, such as phenols.
Are any types of cat litter poisonous to cats?
Most kitty litter products are made out of organic materials such as
bentonite clay or silica. These substances are considered to be
chemically and biologically inert, and do not pose a toxic concern for
pets. Cats may ingest small amounts of litter when grooming themselves
after using the litter box, and these amounts pass through the
digestive tract easily without problems. However, if an animal ingests
a very large amount of litter (as can happen when a dog "cleans out"
the litter box), gastrointestinal upset, constipation, or in rare
cases, intestinal obstruction could potentially occur.
Is it safe for my pet to drink from the toilet?
Bacterial-related gastrointestinal problems could occur from
drinking stagnant toilet water, so it is a good idea to discourage your
dog from imbibing from the commode.
Special note for those who use drop-in toilet bowl cleaning tablets:
If you follow label directions, most toilet bowl cleaning tablets would
not be expected to cause problems beyond minor stomach upset, should a
dog take a drink out of the diluted water in the toilet bowl.
Seasonal
What are the some dangers pets face during Valentine’s Day?
Here are a few top tips to ensure a safe February 14 for your furry loves:
- Potentially poisonous flowers include lilies, tulips, amaryllis, daisies, chrysanthemums and baby’s breath. Check out our Safe Flower Guide for a list of alternatives.
-
Don’t leave the room while candles are still burning. Many pets,
particularly kittens, are attracted to the flames and could get burned
or singed.
- Take extra care if you’ll be serving wine—if
ingested, this could cause a range of symptoms, from vomiting and
diarrhea to metabolic disturbances and even coma.
What are the dangerous substances pets should avoid during the Christmas holidays?
Holiday hazards include:
- Christmas tree water, which may contain fertilizers and bacteria that can upset the stomach if ingested
- Electrical cords
-
Ribbons or tinsel, which can become lodged in the intestines and cause
intestinal obstruction—this most often occurs with kittens
- Batteries
- Glass ornaments.
Of course, there are usually a lot of delicious goodies floating
around during the holidays, too—be sure to keep human treats
inaccessible to your pets.
What are some dangers pets face during the cold winter weather?
The cold weather can bring about some surprising chemical dangers involving ice-melting products and antifreeze.
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After your dog’s been outside in the sleet, snow or ice, thoroughly
wipe off his legs and stomach. If he licks his paws, he could ingest
salt, antifreeze or other potentially dangerous chemicals. His paw pads
may also bleed from snow or encrusted ice.
- Antifreeze, while
essential to a car's cooling system, is very dangerous to your pets if
they are exposed to it. Be sure to thoroughly clean up any spills from
your vehicle, and consider using products that contain propylene glycol
rather than ethylene glycol.
What are some hazards pets face during the warm weather?
Sunbathing, pool parties, barbecues and…fleas? ASPCA experts offer
the following tips to keep your pets safe when the mercury rises:
- Keep citronella candles, insect coils and oil products out of
reach. If ingested, they can produce stomach irritation in pets, and
possibly even central nervous system depression.
- Do not apply
sunscreen or insect repellent product to your pet that is not labeled
specifically for use on animals. The ingestion of sunscreen products
can result in drooling, vomiting, diarrhea, excessive thirst and
lethargy in pets.
- Always keep matches and lighter fluid out of
your pets’ reach. Certain types of matches contain chlorates, which if
swallowed could result in difficulty breathing, or kidney disease in
severe cases.
- Never leave alcoholic drinks unattended where
pets can reach them. Alcoholic beverages can be poisonous to pets and
if ingested, the animal could become extremely weak, severely depressed
or could go into a coma.
- Cats react very differently than
dogs to some insecticides; because of this, some flea-control products
that are safely used on dogs, particularly those containing permethrin,
can be deadly to cats, even in small amounts.
GO TO WWW.ASPCA.COM FOR MORE ANSWERS!
Sat Sep 06, 2008
What is a Furminator
FURminator Inc. manufactures products to address the number one complaint of pet owners, SHEDDING. We also love our pets and understand the frustration fellow pet lovers feel with the problems of shedding. The embarrassment of hair all over the house when guests come to visit. The endless vacuuming and cleaning. The constant checking and wiping of their hair off our clothes. For years, a professional groomer (Angie Porter, co-founder) had been attempting to find the best tool to combat shedding. After over a decade of using every possible device in the industry, she worked with her husband (David Porter, co-founder) to develop a new type of tool that didn't cut the pet's coat. They created a unique tool to grab and remove the loose undercoat. Together they experimented with placing this stainless steel deShedding edge in a crude handle. Little by little they experimented with different, more-ergonomic handle designs and more-effective edges. After many modifications they arrived at their most successful design and patented the FURminator deShedding Tool, which now has multiple patents and additional patents pending. And the rest of the FURminator story is, as they say, history - but it's an exciting, ongoing history. The FURminator deShedding Tools are complemented by a complete line of deShedding products to promote a healthy coat and skin and to help reduce shedding.
To buy one go to www.furminator.com
Fri Sep 05, 2008
Looking to buy a Horse?
"Neigh, neigh, whinney!"
...HORSE
General Information
Some experts speculate that horses were first domesticated almost
10,000 years ago. Throughout time, these sturdy and resilient animals
have been used for transportation, to transport cargo, and sometimes
for food. Around 2000 BC, historical records indicate that horses were
used by many different cultures and societies.
Once domesticated, horses began to be bred for their specific
abilities and characteristics. As humans began to find various uses for
these animals they began to breed certain horses for pulling plows and
wagons, for riding (with and without saddles), and as mentioned before,
some cultures used horses as a source of meat and milk. Modern day
horses are used mainly for recreation, although in some areas of the
world horses are still used for work.
HORSE Scientific Information
Kingdom: Animalia
Phylum: Chordata
Class: Mammalia
Order: Perissodactyla
Family: Equidae
Genus: Equus
Species: E. caballus
HORSE Character Information
Depending on the breed, horses’ behaviors and characteristics vary
from being subdued to very spirited animals. Horses are very
intelligent can be taught to obey and perform specific tasks when
trained to do so. If you have any experience in riding or working with
horses, you can attest to the fact that at times they can also be very
stubborn animals.
Horses require special attention and care and should be taught
to trust their caretaker. Horses that are neglected or not well cared
for can become wild and unruly creating an unsafe environment for
anyone in this large animal’s vicinity. Fri Sep 05, 2008
Are Grants For Starting A Small Business Available To You?
Are Grants For Starting A Small Business Available To You? by Sam Rogerson
Grants for starting a small business are waiting for those who are eligible. Well, there's more to it. Following the right application process can bring your business closer to the grant money you need
Grants for starting a small business are tempting for many, but only a few will ever see the free grants money in their bank account. To succeed, the applicant should engage the services of a qualified grants writer. The way in which the grants application is written will decide its final success.
Securing your share of grants for starting a small business can be vital to survival of your business, while many others will fail. Why? Because of the lack of funds. That's why free grants monies are so important. No matter how cheap the credit is that your bank is offering you, nothing beats the founding that is free of any charges.
What you must know, is that grants for starting a small business are allocated by the state government's development agency. Its role is to asses applicants, as to their viability and existing track record, and grant those who deserve the federal government funds. Yes, the monies come from the Capitol Hill, for the benefit of enterprising individuals at the state level. However, if you fail in your application for a grant to start a small business, the same agency may be able to offer you long term loans.
Grants for starting a small business are often used to survive the downturn in demand, cooling off of the economy, or just plain need to restructure the business. Although conditions of these grants tend to be quite strict, it is possible to put grant monies to the best use, according to your situation. As the business owner, you know very well what your immediate needs are, and what can wait till the more prosperous trading conditions return. In some extreme cases, these funds were used to cope with the consequences of natural disasters, as written in the grantor's terms of approval.
There is a flood of information about grants for starting a small business. The online sources should be considered first, for their convenience and being up to date. At the same time, you can visit your local Chamber of Commerce, and they will point you out to the agencies that deal with the free grants available in your state. Also, you town library may be able to help with grant writing application-related issues.
Before making a decision to apply or not, make sure you know the rudimentary issues involved. It's better to do a proper research and obtain all necessary information, at the application stage, than being rejected, or worse still, having your business audited and the grant money recalled. This would certainly hurt you business image
Don't hesitate to apply for a grant for starting a small business. There are many billions of dollars available from the federal government funds. Why? Because it's being long recognized, that the small business sector of the economy is its backbone; employing more than 51% of the workforce, and contributing substantially to the Treasury coffers.
As the private sector and associated small businesses grow in importance on the national level, more and more monies are allocated to foster their growth and expansion. After all, more than half of the America's GDP (Gross Domestic Product) is produced by the small business sector. Truly, one very significant player for the economic health of the nation, and hence so well deserving all the help it needs!
Grants for small business deliver cash to American enterprises. This is how Sam Rogerson secures money for business. His website Grants-Review.com connects you with the latest grant application tips. Click here to get your own unique version of this article.
Are you trying to decide on
the perfect family dog? Whether you get a puppy or a full-grown dog,
the best breed for your family depends on your lifestyle, your
children’s ages and temperaments and where you live.
We all know
that children can be hard on dogs. They may not realize that they are
hurting the dog by tail pulling and ear twisting. Some dogs do not like
being chased or having their possessions touched. This is why it is so
important to find a breed that can tolerate over enthusiastic children.
So what kind of puppy should you choose? Here are some family friendly
breeds and a brief description of each.
The Collie is probably
the image of the perfect family dog. Everybody knows and loves Lassie.
This dog is truly a child’s best friend, sensitive, sweet and kind.
They are very protective of their family but especially their children.
They are good natured, energetic dogs. They love to play. Puppies may
nip at the heels but should outgrow this behavior.
One look at
the Newfoundland and you will see a gentle giant. They are a natural
born babysitter. Not enough good can be said about these dogs. Perhaps
Lord Byron put it best, “…courage without ferocity, and all the virtues
of a man without his vices.” Newf’s are calm, gentle and loyal. Some
become so devoted to their family they cannot adjust if re-homed. They
will place themselves in harm’s way to protect the people they love.
They are mild mannered with a slow gait and very sensitive to voice
tones. Newf’s love water so swimming is an excellent exercise.
Labrador
Retrievers are a natural family addition. They need to be in the heart
of the house. They are a patient, loving companion. They should have
plenty of exercise and things to occupy their mind or they may become
destructive. They have a reliable temperament and are excellent with
children.
Irish Setters are lovable bundles of energy. They are
intelligent and affectionate. They are not guard dogs and would let a
thief walk off with the family jewels. They are excellent companions
for every member of the family. They tend to be a sensitive dog. They
need lots of exercise or they can become high strung or nervous.
Basset
Hounds are probably one of the most underestimated dogs there are.
People conjure the image of Droopy. But these dogs can be quite the
playmate for a child. They are mild dogs with a sweet, gentle
disposition. They can be a bit stubborn especially when it comes to
housebreaking. You must keep their weight in check.
Airedale
Terriers may not be a good choice for families with small children due
to their high energy levels. They can play a bit rough. However, they
are devoted family dogs with a devoted and courageous nature. They need
early socialization and obedience training.
The Golden
Retriever is a sure-fire family pleaser. They are kind, sweet, loyal
and exceedingly patient and gentle with children. They are charming
dogs that can be easily trained. They make good watchdogs but not good
guard dogs. They need family attention and give much love in return.
A
Boxer is not a breed most people would think of when it comes to a
family dog. And most people would be wrong. Boxers are famous for the
way they get along so well with children. They adore their kids. Boxers
need lots of human contact. They are playful, spunky clown-like dogs.
They make very good guard dogs and will protect your children with
their life. They may be a little rowdy with smaller children due to the
fact they like to jump.
If you want a smaller family dog a
Poodle may be a good choice with slightly older children. The Standard
Poodle tends to tolerate more than the smaller varieties. They love to
be with their family. Poodles are natural clowns with a high
intelligence level. They love to learn and children love to teach them
to do tricks. This makes a good combination. Just make sure when you
get a Poodle you socialize them so they do not become nervous and
high-strung.
The Shih Tzu is another good choice for a smaller
family dog. Also known as the lion dog it is a sturdy little creature.
They were once considered sacred dogs. They make good companions for
the whole family including the kids. In general, they are
non-aggressive, happy, playful companions that will compliment any
family.
These are but a very few breeds that make good family
pets. Certainly mixed breeds will bring just as much joy and
fulfillment to your family. Pets are commitments so don’t make a hasty
choice.
About the Author
Susan Sosby
Owner of 6 Jack Russell Terriers
http://www.PuppyPickingTips.com
http://MyJackRussellTerriers.com Fri Sep 05, 2008
Help Unwanted Pets Find Homes
If you’re a pet owner, you
know how it feels when your beloved pet looks at you with total trust
and faith. People who share their lives with dogs know adoration; those
who share their lives with cats know acceptance. All pet lovers know
humor, and ultimately, they know tears. There is an acknowledged bond
between humans and the creatures who love them and the expression of
that bond may be greatest among those involved with animal rescue.
In
the past, animal rescue consisted mostly of picking up stray dogs and
cats taking them to the local pound. When I was a child every stray in
my small town knew that I was a born animal rescuer. Strays inevitably
found me and followed me home. Sometimes the stray found a home with my
family and other times friends or neighbors offered a safe home.
Now,
animal rescue has expanded to address the needs of animals caught in
war zones and natural disasters, those no longer able to perform in
entertainment venues like circuses, movies or racing and those
suffering at the hands of cruel and/or neglectful humans.
The
oldest and probably best-known pet rescue program in the United States
is the ASPCA. This organization was founded in 1866 to address the
cruelties faced by animals then, and it continues the fight today by
helping animals in many ways. ASPCA works to pass humane laws, rescues
pets from abusive situations, and shares resources with shelters
nationwide. The Best Friends Animal Society is an animal sanctuary in
Southern Utah that is working toward a time when there are no more
homeless pets. There are approximately 1,500 dogs, cats, horses,
rabbits, birds, and other animals at the sanctuary on any given day.
Between
8 million and 12 million pets end up in animal shelters across the
country every year. Between 5 million and 9 million are euthanized (60
percent of dogs and 70 percent of cats). About equal numbers of animals
are given up by owners and picked up by animal control and taken to
shelter. The National Council on Pet Population Study and Policy
(NCPPSP) found that less than 2 percent of cats and between 15 percent
and 20 percent of dogs are returned to their owners. Most of these
returned pets had tags, tattoos, or microchips that helped in the
process.
The job of an animal rescuer is not for the faint of
heart. According to knowledgeable sources, five out of ten dogs in
shelters and seven out of ten cats in shelters have to be destroyed
just because there is no one to adopt them. Killing dogs and cats for
that reason is very emotional for rescuers. In cases like Hurricane
Katrina, having to leave some pets behind because they were too
traumatized to be rescued is heart-breaking as well.
Working
in a private shelter can be rewarding because most animals are saved
and rehabilitated. However, this process can be difficult, expensive
and time consuming. Volunteers are exposed to animals who have been
used as bait in dog fights, others beaten to a pulp, some bred so often
that they barely have an ounce of life left in them. Rescuing these
animals is a labor of love but volunteers often struggle with
depression and often find themselves despising the human race for what
they put these animals through. Nonetheless, millions of volunteers
work for public and private shelters and this type of work is perfect
for the lonely and unloved among us. These animals, as I personally
experienced, appreciate every morsel of food, every soft blanket, every
toy and every gesture of love. They seem to forget, for a moment, what
they have been through and in gratitude shower the volunteers with love.
The
proliferation of no-kill shelters has been welcomed by both animals and
those who love them, but all rescuers are adamant that the only real
way to reduce the number of homeless pets is for every pet owner to
spay and neuter their animals. The Alliance for Contraception in Dogs
and Cats is working to develop non-surgical approaches and make them
available to pet owners.
Please consider volunteering your time
and money to an animal shelter. Human beings have many options
available to help them battle addiction, find a home, buy food for
their family but animals do not have these resources. After donating
hundreds of hours of time, thousands of dollars and other resources to
human beings over the past 30 years I have turned my efforts to animal
rescue. Why? Human beings invariably make the decisions that put
themselves in harms way and often relapse no matter how much time and
money is lavished upon them. Homeless and unloved animals have no
choice in bettering their circumstances. They have to rely on people
like me and you to have even a hope of keeping their life and finding a
home.
The following list includes organizations involved with pet rescue and pet population control.
American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals The oldest organization in the US specifically founded to protect and save animals.
National Council on Pet Population Study & Policy This
organization gathers and analyzes data about the number and disposition
of dogs and cats in the United States in order to promote responsible
stewardship of companion animals.
American Veterinary Medical Association A
nonprofit that represents over 75,000 veterinarians working in private
and corporate practice, government, industry, academia, and uniformed
services.
Feral Cat Coalition Information about the trap-neuter-release method of controlling feral cat colonies
National Humane Education Society “Our mission is to foster a sentiment of kindness to animals in children and adults.”
SpayUSA A nationwide network and referral service for affordable spay/neuter services.
Best Friends Organization A volunteer run sanctuary for animals of all types in southern Utah.
Bonnie Jo Davis is a Virtual Assistant and author who enjoys helping
others. She is the publisher of the Fifty Fantastic Dog Recipes and
Fifty Fantastic Cat Recipes and is active in dog rescue. Her passion is
to help animals in need to find homes. http://www.dog-and-cat-food.com
Relief from heat does not
come easily specially for our furry friend. They do not have sweat
glands so they cannot sweat to cool off. Most dogs will just simply
give up the comfort of their bed and stretch out in the bare floor to
cool off. Panting also help to cool them off but this is not
sufficient. Dogs with thick, double-coats are more susceptible to heat
stroke. Dogs can experience some serious discomfort during summer and
hot months. A cooling pet bed is the ideal solution to this. Canine
cooler bed can provide an ongoing therapy for your furry friend. It can
be very helpful and bring much relief, especially if your dog suffers
from bad joints, hips or one of many skin conditions affecting pets
from all walks of life. A cooling pet bed doesn't have to be expensive
either, and can be used all year around, especially in those hot summer
months.
Some dog have thicker fur than others, which makes it
hard to keep cool. Unfortunately this can be the cause of your pet’s
lack of energy, skin irritations, breathing difficulties and a variety
of other concerns. Although they can lie down on the bare floor to cool
off, this can bring other medical problems to them such as arthritis
especially for aging dogs. Sleeping on the cold hard floor can cause
chronic pain and additional discomfort.
There are two common
types of dog beds, the cooling water bed and the cooling pads. Cooling
water beds are filled with water provide a great relief during summer.
Cooling pads are more like a thick mat that a fluffy mattress type of
bed. The cooling pads are designed in such a way that they do not
absorb heat thereby making the bed hot, but repel the heat so that your
pet can always stay cool. Some of these pads are also the
thermo-regulating kind, which means that they can be used as cooling
dog beds in the summer, as well as heated dog beds come winter time.
Make sure that the bed you get for your dog is made of high-quality and
non-toxic materials.
All cats, like humans, also
need proper attention and nurture. In fact, these domesticated animals
can play an important role in our everyday life. Cats are highly known
for their intelligence and loyalty that’s why it is also important for
us to properly train and take good care of them.
Cats are also
considered as great companions and friends and can provide us with lots
of love and entertainment. But even though most pet owners know the
importance of their cats; only few people know how to properly train
and care for them. And this is where the importance of responsible pet
ownership enters.
If you want to own a cat, you must be
responsible in adopting them. You must realize that developing your
pet’s bad habit may not bring happiness to you and the people around
you.
In order to be a responsible pet owner, you have to
properly nurture your pet. Let’s say you own a cat, make sure that you
know how to feed him with quality cat food, provide him a good shelter
and give him the best protection just like the state-of-the-art patio
cat doors that we offer. This will give them freedom to go in and out
of the house without having to scratch your doors.
Similarly,
when you have cats at home, you can just give them a clean litter box,
a comfortable home, a bit of your affection and they will be very
satisfied. Pets are like small children who also need to be treated
fairly. So just treat them right while providing their designated
boundaries.
Installing window cat doors would help you train
and discipline them on how to properly go in and out of your house
appropriately. With these wall mount cat doors, you can just leave them
at home and just go back from work without worrying if they have ruined
all your home accessories.
A cat’s proper behavior will also
depend on his or her owner. When they think their owner takes good care
of them and knows how to properly discipline them, they will execute a
proper behavior. They don’t want to be abused nor beaten and they
always wanted to be rewarded and praised. Executing the proper
disciplinary action will make them realize the difference between right
and wrong behavior.
Hitting or kicking them while training is
ineffective and not a good way to treat them and may even cause them to
attack somebody. So in order for your pet to respect and obey you or
listen to your commands, you must perform the most proper training. Try
it and you will be amazed how your pet reacts to your proper
disciplinary actions.
Last December, the Atlanta Falcons' star quarterback Michael Vick was sentenced
to 23 months in prison for operating an illegal dog-fighting venture on
his Virginia property. Forty-seven pit bulls in various states of
physical and psychological damage were found at Vick's Bad Newz
Kennels; eight more corpses were buried nearby.
At the time,
many animal rescue experts recommended that the dogs be put down; so
traumatic had the abuse been, so long had been their imprisonment that
rehabilitation seemed impossible.
Others, including the veterinarians and trainers at Utah's Best Friends Animal Society,
argued that the dogs could be saved. A judge finally agreed, and more
than half were turned over to various shelters and rescues; the 22 most
troubled dogs were sent to Dogtown.
Located on 3,000 acres of
canyon country in southern Utah, the Best Friends sanctuary is one of
the largest and no doubt the most beautifully located no-kill animal
facilities; Dogtown is its canine program. For the last two years,
"DogTown" the show has chronicled the staff as it healed and trained
various ill, hurt, abused, abandoned and behavior-issue-plagued dogs.
Ultimately,
McNamara says, the show will grab you for how it tells the story, not
just for the animal-related content likely to resonate with avid dog
people:
So if you ever wondered
how bad dog fighting is, here's your answer. To its everlasting credit,
"DogTown" does not sensationalize the abuse; the histories of the dogs
are simply pieced together from behavior patterns and physical
evidence, which is much more chilling and effective.
Fri Sep 05, 2008
Denver Family Charged With Cruelty To Animals After Hundreds Seized
DENVER, N.C. -- A woman charged with neglecting animals at her rescue in Denver said Friday she took care to all of her nearly 400 pets.Vicki
Rauch and her son are each charged with nine counts of animal cruelty.
Rauch’s husband is also charged with animal cruelty.Last week,
crews seized animals of all kinds from their home in Denver. Animal
Services said the nine charges come from the animals in the worst
condition.“But I think if they only found something wrong with nine animals out of 400, that's still an A-plus, you know,” Rauch said.The
Animal Services director said any reasonable adult would have known
that the animals needed immediate medical attention. He said there are
still more extremely ill animals and the possibility of more charges. Thu Sep 04, 2008
Tuna for cats?
While tuna as an occasional treat is generally harmless, there can be
problems if a cat’s diet consists mostly of tuna. Because tuna doesn’t
have significant amounts of vitamin E, too much tuna (especially when
it is packed in oil) can mean a vitamin E deficiency causing yellow fat
disease, or pansteaititis. The cat may experience a loss of appetite,
fever, and a hypersensitivity to touch because of inflammation and
necrosis of fat under the skin. Canned tuna is also lacking in calcium,
sodium, iron, copper and several other vitamins and minerals. Thu Sep 04, 2008
NO CHOCOLATE FOR DOGS!
Chocolate contains a substance very similar to caffeine called
theobromine, which is a stimulant. Because this stimulant can affect
the heart, a twenty pound dog can become seriously ill or die from
eating just one pound of good quality chocolate. The good news is that
many of the chocolates humans eat have only a small amount of chocolate
in them, so the risk is less. Additionally, all that sugar is not good
for our four-footed friends! If your pet has eaten chocolate, you might
call your veterinarian for direction. Thu Sep 04, 2008
Rainbow Bridge
Rainbow
Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to
someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can
run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and
comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored
to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong
again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each
miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when
one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent;
His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying
over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend
finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted
again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the
beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet,
so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
Thu Sep 04, 2008
Resources on Pet Loss & Grief for Cats & Dogs
Resources on Pet Loss & Grief for Cats
Veterinary & Aquatic Services Department, Drs. Foster & Smith, Inc.
We understand how sad the death of a beloved pet can be. It is always
helpful to talk about your grief with others who will understand. If
you do not know anyone to talk to, you may want to call someone at one
of the Pet Loss Hotlines.
It may also be comforting to read about others' thoughts on mourning
for a pet. The following books may help you, family members, or friends
who have lost or may be losing a pet. Those books marked with an * are
for children, but provide comfort to adults as well.
Pet Loss Support Hotlines (Grief Counseling)
Veterinary & Aquatic Services Department, Drs. Foster & Smith, Inc.
For many people, losing a pet may be one of the saddest experiences
they will ever have. We know and understand how the death of a beloved
friend and companion can be heartbreaking. Talking to someone who
understands your grief is a way to help the healing process begin. If
you do not know of anyone to talk to, you may wish to call one of the
pet loss hotlines listed below. Caring people there can listen and
help. They're only a phone call away.
University of California-Davis veterinary students
530-752-3602 or 800-565-1526
Monday-Friday between 6:30pm-9:30pm
Summer Hours: Tuesday-Thursday between 6:30pm-9:30pm
Call
and leave your name and number. You will be called back between
7:00pm-9:00pm. Messages are checked daily. (If messages have already
been checked for the day when you call, your call will be returned the
next evening.) Web site: neuro.vetmed.ufl.edu/alt_med/petgrief/petloss.htm
University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine students
217-244-2273 (CARE) or 877-394-2273 (CARE)
Sunday, Tuesday, and Thursday between 7:00pm-9:00pm
Anyone who considers a pet a beloved friend, companion, or
family member knows the intense pain that accompanies the loss
of that friend. Following are some tips on coping with that grief,
and with the difficult decisions one faces upon the loss of a
pet.
1. Am I crazy to hurt so much?
Intense grief over the loss of a pet is normal and natural.
Don't let anyone tell you that it's silly, crazy, or overly sentimental
to grieve!
During the years you spent with your pet (even if they were
few), it became a significant and constant part of your life.
It was a source of comfort and companionship, of unconditional
love and acceptance, of fun and joy. So don't be surprised if
you feel devastated by the loss of such a relationship.
People who don't understand the pet/owner bond may not understand
your pain. All that matters, however, is how you feel. Don't
let others dictate your feelings: They are valid, and may be
extremely painful. But remember, you are not alone: Thousands
of pet owners have gone through the same feelings.
2. What Can I Expect to Feel?
Different people experience grief in different ways. Besides
your sorrow and loss, you may also experience the following emotions:
Guilt may occur if you feel responsible for your pet's
death-the "if only I had been more careful" syndrome.
It is pointless and often erroneous to burden yourself with guilt
for the accident or illness that claimed your pet's life, and
only makes it more difficult to resolve your grief.
Denial makes it difficult to accept that your pet
is really gone. It's hard to imagine that your pet won't greet
you when you come home, or that it doesn't need its evening meal.
Some pet owners carry this to extremes, and fear their pet is
still alive and suffering somewhere. Others find it hard to get
a new pet for fear of being "disloyal" to the old.
Anger may be directed at the illness that killed your
pet, the driver of the speeding car, the veterinarian who "failed"
to save its life. Sometimes it is justified, but when carried
to extremes, it distracts you from the important task of resolving
your grief.
Depression is a natural consequence of grief, but
can leave you powerless to cope with your feelings. Extreme depression
robs you of motivation and energy, causing you to dwell upon
your sorrow.
3. What can I do about my feelings?
The most important step you can take is to be honest about
your feelings. Don't deny your pain, or your feelings of anger
and guilt. Only by examining and coming to terms with your feelings
can you begin to work through them.
You have a right to feel pain and grief! Someone you loved
has died, and you feel alone and bereaved. You have a right to
feel anger and guilt, as well. Acknowledge your feelings first,
then ask yourself whether the circumstances actually justify
them.
Locking away grief doesn't make it go away. Express it. Cry,
scream, pound the floor, talk it out. Do what helps you the most.
Don't try to avoid grief by not thinking about your pet; instead,
reminisce about the good times. This will help you understand
what your pet's loss actually means to you.
Some find it helpful to express their feelings and memories
in poems, stories, or letters to the pet. Other strategies including
rearranging your schedule to fill in the times you would have
spent with your pet; preparing a memorial such as a photo collage;
and talking to others about your loss.
4. Who can I talk to?
If your family or friends love pets, they'll understand what
you're going through. Don't hide your feelings in a misguided
effort to appear strong and calm! Working through your feelings
with another person is one of the best ways to put them in perspective
and find ways to handle them. Find someone you can talk to about
how much the pet meant to you and how much you miss it-someone
you feel comfortable crying and grieving with.
If you don't have family or friends who understand, or if
you need more help, ask your veterinarian or humane association
to recommend a pet loss counselor or support group. Check with
your church or hospital for grief counseling. Remember, your
grief is genuine and deserving of support.
5. When is the right time to euthanize a pet?
Your veterinarian is the best judge of your pet's physical
condition; however, you are the best judge of the quality of
your pet's daily life. If a pet has a good appetite, responds
to attention, seeks its owner's company, and participates in
play or family life, many owners feel that this is not the time.
However, if a pet is in constant pain, undergoing difficult and
stressful treatments that aren't helping greatly, unresponsive
to affection, unaware of its surroundings, and uninterested in
life, a caring pet owner will probably choose to end the beloved
companion's suffering.
Evaluate your pet's health honestly and unselfishly with your
veterinarian. Prolonging a pet's suffering in order to prevent
your own ultimately helps neither of you. Nothing can make this
decision an easy or painless one, but it is truly the final act
of love that you can make for your pet.
6. Should I stay during euthanasia?
Many feel this is the ultimate gesture of love and comfort
you can offer your pet. Some feel relief and comfort themselves
by staying: They were able to see that their pet passed peacefully
and without pain, and that it was truly gone. For many, not witnessing
the death (and not seeing the body) makes it more difficult to
accept that the pet is really gone. However, this can be traumatic,
and you must ask yourself honestly whether you will be able to
handle it. Uncontrolled emotions and tears-though natural-are
likely to upset your pet.
Some clinics are more open than others to allowing the owner
to stay during euthanasia. Some veterinarians are also willing
to euthanize a pet at home. Others have come to an owner's car
to administer the injection. Again, consider what will be least
traumatic for you and your pet, and discuss your desires and
concerns with your veterinarian. If your clinic is not able to
accommodate your wishes, request a referral.
7. What do I do next?
When a pet dies, you must choose how to handle its remains.
Sometimes, in the midst of grief, it may seem easiest to leave
the pet at the clinic for disposal. Check with your clinic to
find out whether there is a fee for such disposal. Some shelters
also accept such remains, though many charge a fee for disposal.
If you prefer a more formal option, several are available.
Home burial is a popular choice, if you have sufficient property
for it. It is economical and enables you to design your own funeral
ceremony at little cost. However, city regulations usually prohibit
pet burials, and this is not a good choice for renters or people
who move frequently.
To many, a pet cemetery provides a sense of dignity, security,
and permanence. Owners appreciate the serene surroundings and
care of the gravesite. Cemetery costs vary depending on the services
you select, as well as upon the type of pet you have. Cremation
is a less expensive option that allows you to handle your pet's
remains in a variety of ways: bury them (even in the city), scatter
them in a favorite location, place them in a columbarium, or
even keep them with you in a decorative urn (of which a wide
variety are available).
Check with your veterinarian, pet shop, or phone directory
for options available in your area. Consider your living situation,
personal and religious values, finances, and future plans when
making your decision. It's also wise to make such plans in advance,
rather than hurriedly in the midst of grief.
8. What should I tell my children?
You are the best judge of how much information your children
can handle about death and the loss of their pet. Don't underestimate
them, however. You may find that, by being honest with them about
your pet's loss, you may be able to address some fears and misperceptions
they have about death.
Honesty is important. If you say the pet was "put to
sleep," make sure your children understand the difference
between death and ordinary sleep. Never say the pet "went
away," or your child may wonder what he or she did to make
it leave, and wait in anguish for its return. That also makes
it harder for a child to accept a new pet. Make it clear that
the pet will not come back, but that it is happy and free of
pain.
Never assume a child is too young or too old to grieve. Never
criticize a child for tears, or tell them to "be strong"
or not to feel sad. Be honest about your own sorrow; don't try
to hide it, or children may feel required to hide their grief
as well. Discuss the issue with the entire family, and give everyone
a chance to work through their grief at their own pace.
9. Will my other pets grieve?
Pets observe every change in a household, and are bound to
notice the absence of a companion. Pets often form strong attachments
to one another, and the survivor of such a pair may seem to grieve
for its companion. Cats grieve for dogs, and dogs for cats.
You may need to give your surviving pets a lot of extra attention
and love to help them through this period. Remember that, if
you are going to introduce a new pet, your surviving pets may
not accept the newcomer right away, but new bonds will grow in
time. Meanwhile, the love of your surviving pets can be wonderfully
healing for your own grief.
10. Should I get a new pet right away?
Generally, the answer is no. One needs time to work through
grief and loss before attempting to build a relationship with
a new pet. If your emotions are still in turmoil, you may resent
a new pet for trying to "take the place" of the old-for
what you really want is your old pet back. Children in particular
may feel that loving a new pet is "disloyal" to the
previous pet.
When you do get a new pet, avoid getting a "lookalike"
pet, which makes comparisons all the more likely. Don't expect
your new pet to be "just like" the one you lost, but
allow it to develop its own personality. Never give a new pet
the same name or nickname as the old. Avoid the temptation to
compare the new pet to the old one: It can be hard to remember
that your beloved companion also caused a few problems when it
was young!
A new pet should be acquired because you are ready to move
forward and build a new relationship-rather than looking backward
and mourning your loss. When you are ready, select an animal
with whom you can build another long, loving relationship-because
this is what having a pet is all about!
A POEM FOR THE GRIEVING...
Do not stand
at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die...
Thu Sep 04, 2008
Grief & the Loss of a Pet
Grief & the Loss of a Pet Holly Nash, DVM, MS Veterinary Services Department, Drs. Foster & Smith, Inc.
Grief upon the loss of a pet is a normal response, and a very individual one.
For some people, grieving for a pet who has died may be a more
difficult process than grieving for a human loved one. One reason is
that the support network of understanding and caring people may be
smaller. If a person has lost a human loved one, the friends, family,
co-workers, etc., will all be understanding. They may send cards,
flowers, and offer food and companionship. This is often not the case
when a pet dies. A funeral or memorial service for the deceased person
will bring people together to provide mutual support and a sense of
closure. Again, in most cases, this does not occur upon the death of a
pet. Hurtful comments such as 'Don't be so upset,' 'It was only a cat,'
and 'You can get another one,' may add to the grief and feeling of
isolation and loneliness. Stages of grief
We know that grieving is a complex process which includes a number of
stages. These stages include: denial, bargaining, anger, sadness, and
resolution. The stages may come in a recognized sequence or they may
appear as a complex series of emotions and feelings. The length of each
stage varies with each person, and often among cultures. Some people
may return to a particular stage, such as anger, time and again. Others
may reach resolution quite quickly. It does not mean they loved their
pet any less, it is just their individual reaction to their loss. In
most instances, the grieving process may continue for a few months to
almost a year.
Denial: When we hear bad news, some
of us have a tendency to deny it. We think it really is not true, that
we did not 'hear it right,' or 'it cannot be as bad as that.' This is a
defensive mechanism we use in an attempt to insulate ourselves from the
emotional trauma we are, or are going to, experience.
Bargaining: When a human loved one is
dying, many people may want to 'bargain' with God. If you let my loved
one live, then I will... Although this is not as common when a pet
dies, many people still experience this stage of grief. Owners of a
dying pet may also experience a different type of bargaining such as
telling their pet, 'If you recover, I will never scold you again.'
Anger: Anger is a common stage of
grief that follows denial. Anger may be towards others such as the
veterinarian or another family member. It may also be directed towards
oneself in the form of guilt. We may say, 'If I had only brought her to
the veterinarian sooner, she would be okay.' Some owners may feel angry
at the pet for leaving them alone.
Sorrow and Sadness: Sadness is the
stage we most often think of as grief. For many people, losing a pet
may be one of the saddest experiences they will ever have. We mourn our
loss. We may find it difficult to eat, sleep, or concentrate. We may
not want to be around other people; but in reality, this is when we
need understanding people the most. Talking to someone who understands
our grief is a way to help the healing process begin. Caring people
there can listen and help. If you do not know of anyone to talk to, you
may wish to call a pet loss hotline. There are also books available
written by people who understand the pain of losing a pet.
Resolution: Resolution is the final
stage of the grieving process. At this point, we are able to accept
that our wonderful friend has died. We start focusing on the wonderful
memories we have and the times we enjoyed together. At this point, we
may consider looking for a new pet, not to replace our lost friend, but
to have someone to enjoy life with. There still may be times when we
experience deep sadness, anger, or guilt at our loss, but we can
recover from these times faster, and look forward rather than backward.
In addition to these stages, other emotional reactions may be seen.
People can experience shock if the death of their pet was sudden and
unanticipated, and may experience an emotional numbness. If a pet is
missing, the uncertainty of what may have happened to the pet can
produce worry and anxiety. When a pet disappears, children may be
especially fearful of becoming lost or separated from their family.
Ambiguous loss
In an ambiguous loss, the whereabouts or cause of death of the pet
is unknown. The pet may have run away or been stolen, or the owner may
have needed to surrender the pet to a humane shelter. In these
situations, there is seldom any 'closure.' The owner does not know when
or if the pet has died, or if lost, whether the pet will ever come
back. As a result, when to stop searching and when to start the
grieving process are unsure. There may also be additional guilt
associated with this type of loss.
How grief is expressed
In the book, The Human-Animal Bond and Grief, the authors describe five manifestations of grief.
Physical: Crying, nausea and loss of
appetite, inability to sleep, fatigue, restlessness, and body aches and
stiffness are typical manifestations of grief.
Intellectual: When grieving, people often experience an inability to concentrate, confusion, and a sense that time is passing very slowly.
Emotional: As described above, many
emotions can be expressed in the course of the grieving process.
Irritability, a lowered sense of self-worth, resentment, and
embarrassment are also common feelings.
Social: Some grieving people often
withdraw, may be reluctant to ask for help, and feel rejected by
others. Others may show an increased dependency on other people, or an
increased need to 'keep busy' and overcommit to activities.
Spiritual: The death of a pet may
result in a person bargaining or feeling angry with God. The grieving
person may try to find some meaningful interpretation of the death, and
question what happens to pets after they die and whether pets have
souls.
Help and healing
It
has been shown that when grief can be expressed, the time needed for
healing is often less. Similarly, if the expression of grief is
restricted or withheld, the healing process may take much longer.
In addition to talking with others, to do something often
helps us work through our grief. By doing something positive during
this time of sadness, we expand our focus by celebrating the life of
the pet. Activities which may help include:
Planting flowers or a tree in memory of the pet
Making a charitable donation
Holding a funeral or memorial service
Drawing a picture, making a clay sculpture or doing needlework of
something that reminds you of your pet (you could do this yourself, or
have it done by a professional)
Placing your pet's nametag on your keyring
Writing a poem, song, or story
Composing music or a song
Creating a memorial photo album or scrap book
Writing a letter to your pet
Framing a photograph
Volunteering your time
People who have a pet who has died need to talk to someone. Often
family members and friends are very supportive, but in some instances,
they may not understand how important your pet was to you. It is
important to find someone who does understand.
There are certain circumstances which can intensify the grief. If a
person has recently suffered other losses, feels responsible for the
death, or has never fully grieved an earlier death, the grieving
process is often more complex. If the pet died of a disease similar to
one which the owner or a loved one currently has or has had in the
past, the grief can also be compounded.
If the pet has shared a significant event in the owner's life e.g.;
was a gift from a spouse, the pet alerted the owner of a fire or
otherwise 'rescued' the owner, or the pet has 'gotten them through' a
difficult period in their life, grief can be compounded. When the pet
was a significant source of support for the person, e.g., the person
lived alone, adjusting to the death of the pet may be extremely
difficult.
In some instances, when the pet dies, the owner also loses a
significant activity. For instance, when a working dog dies, the owner
has lost not only a pet, but a co-worker, someone who has shared
activities with the owner many hours of the day. People who lose an
assistance dog may lose their independence and the ability to even
perform simple daily activities.
Some children or adolescents cannot remember life without the pet.
For them, too, loss of the pet may be especially difficult, and
professional help may be indicated.
In all of these situations, talking to a professional experienced in
grief counseling (bereavement counselors, clergy, social workers,
physicians, psychologists) is often advised and can assist the healing
process. Support groups, pet loss hotlines, and books on pet loss can also be helpful.
When a child's pet dies
Always
be honest regarding the death of a pet. You do not have to discuss all
the details, but the child needs to understand what is going on. A
child will find out the truth in the end and may become less trusting
of the parent, or feel betrayed if not told the truth. The child should
be able to participate in the arrangements. If the pet is to be buried,
the child should always be given the option to be there. Burying the
pet without the child's knowledge can, again, make the entire grieving
process more difficult for the child, and make the child less trusting
of his parents at a time when he really needs them.
If at all possible, prepare the child ahead of time for the death.
Mementos can be very important for children, and they may want some
pictures of them and the pet, a plaster cast of the pet's foot, etc.
Many factors can contribute to how a child will feel when their pet
dies. The child's age and maturity are important factors. As with older
people, the relationship the child had with the pet, the circumstances
of the pet's death, and other events or losses the child has
experienced will influence the grieving process. The ability of the
parents and others to provide support will also play an important role
in helping the child work through the grief.
Some generalities on how children may respond differently to the loss of a pet, as related to age are discussed below.
Infants and Children up to two years:
Infants and very young children may not understand the death of a pet,
but they are very aware of the tension and change in emotional state of
those around them. Reassuring them by hugging and holding them, and
keeping the household routine as normal as possible will help.
Toddlers and Pre-school Children: In
general, children under 7 years of age do not understand that death is
permanent. They will need help in understanding the pet will not wake
up or come home. Do not try to hide a pet's illness or death from a
child. They are often the first to sense that something is wrong.
Trying to isolate them from a pet's death may cause them to feel
abandonment or betrayal, and takes away their right to say good-bye.
Help them to know it is okay to ask questions (they usually have many)
and feel sad. Even children at the age of two can experience feelings
of grief and sorrow. Underplaying the significance of a pet's death may
result in a child feeling no one would care if she, too, died.
School-age children: Children between
the ages of 7 and 12 can understand the permanence of death. They may
ask many questions about how and why the pet died. Children over 12
years of age (adolescents) may have a very difficult time recovering
from grief and may not be open about how much emotional pain they are
experiencing. Adolescents should not be put in the position of having
to take on extra responsibilities such as caring for siblings during
this time of crisis.
Euthanasia:Euthanizing
a pet can result in considerable confusion for a young child. In
explaining euthanasia, simply explain that a painless injection of a
powerful medication is given to the pet, which allows the pet to die
and not suffer. In general, children under the age of eight are too
young to be present when their pet is euthanized. If a child is going
to be present at a euthanasia, it is best to have a pre-euthanasia
session with the veterinarian to explain what will happen. At this
point, it can be determined if it is better for the child not to be
present during the euthanasia, but instead, to be invited into the room
immediately afterwards. The words 'put to sleep' or 'went away' should
not be used with young children, since it may cause them to feel even
more confused. They may fear falling asleep themselves, because they
think they may not wake up. Some children become terrified if they are
told they are going to be 'put to sleep' before surgery. Or they may
feel abandoned and that their pet did not love them and therefore ran
away.
If financial considerations played a role in the decision to
euthanize a pet, the child may believe her parents would not be able to
take care of her if she became ill. In these situations, reassure the
child that she will always be cared for. The child should also be told
that the injection the pet received is not the same as what she
receives at the pediatrician.
Expressing feelings: Young children
are less able to express their feelings in words and are more likely to
'act out' what they feel. They may show anger or aggression in various
situations that do not seem connected to the animal's death. They may
start displaying regressive behavior such as bed-wetting and
thumb-sucking. They may experience separation anxiety or complain about
not feeling well. Activities such as those described above may help the
child work through their feelings. Children of this age may think it
was something they did or thought that caused their pet to die, and
blame themselves. Even if they do not express it, it is often helpful
to reassure the child that he/she was not responsible for the death of
the pet.
Pet loss and the elderly
For many elderly people, their pet is their sole companion, and some
will say, their only reason to live. Many elderly do not have a strong
support system and live alone, away from family. They are at a time in
their lives when they are experiencing the deaths of friends their same
age. Their pet may become the sole focus of their attention and
affection. Their entire daily routine may revolve around their pet.
For some older people, their pet may be their last link to the past,
and the loss of the pet can trigger grief over previous losses. Their
pet may also have been a source of security, barking at strangers or
accompanying them on walks.
Elderly people may experience more guilt when their pets die. If
they are on fixed incomes and have few financial reserves, not being
able to pay for expensive treatments can add a sense of failure to the
deep grief of losing a pet. They may also have put off visits to the
veterinarian because of transportation or financial constraints, and
blame themselves for not getting the pet examined sooner.
Whereas younger people are often able to get a new pet, the elderly
may not be in a position to do so. Housing restrictions, financial
considerations, transportation problems, and their own health and
expected life span may contribute to their decision that they cannot
get another pet. Especially if they have had a pet during most of their
life, this can be an extremely traumatic time.
Should I get another pet?
When or if you should get another pet varies with the individual and
the choice is a personal one. Some people may want to find a new pet
almost immediately. Sometimes they may have unrealistic expectations of
the new pet, especially if they are getting a young, rambunctious
animal after an older, mature one has died. Others need longer to work
through their grief before they are physically and emotionally ready
for another pet. In either case, we all know you are not replacing
your pet, but finding another animal with whom you can share life. Some
people may find it is just not possible for them to have another pet.
You need to do what is right for you.
In general, you should give children some time before getting
another pet. Getting a pet too soon may cause the child to feel guilty
or disloyal, and they may have difficulty bonding to the new pet. The
child may also think that if something happened to them, they would
soon be forgotten and a substitute would be found. They need to
understand that friendships cannot immediately be replaced.
Do animals grieve?
We
all know of animals who have stopped eating, playing, or interacting
when another pet in the household has died. They are experiencing a
loss of their own, plus they often sense the owner's sorrow as well.
After a pet dies, we can help the other pets in the household by
keeping their routines as unchanged as possible. Increasing their
activity through going for walks or playing with toys may be helpful.
This will not only benefit your pet, but help you too.
If they are acting depressed or are not eating, be careful not to
reinforce or reward their behavior. Giving them extra attention or
different food when they behave this way may actually cause them to
start using those behaviors as ways to obtain more attention or get
special treats. The book, When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals
by Susan McCarthy and Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson discusses the many
emotions of animals and you may find it an interesting and valuable
resource.
Thu Sep 04, 2008
The pain of euthanizing a pet
Euthanasia
Holly Nash, DVM, MS
Veterinary Services Department, Drs. Foster & Smith, Inc.
"Like all vets, I hated doing this, painless though it was, but to me there has always been a comfort in the knowledge that the last thing these helpless animals knew was the sound of a friendly voice, and the touch of a gentle hand."
James Herriot
All Things Wise and Wonderful
For owners and veterinarians, euthanizing a pet is one of the most difficult things we will ever do. Euthanasia continues to be an option for many pet owners who do not want their terminally-ill pet to suffer, or who may find the veterinary costs for continued treatment of their pet to be prohibitive. As an owner, the emotions you feel at this time often may make it hard to think, communicate, and make decisions. Therefore, it is often helpful to discuss the process of euthanasia with your veterinarian well in advance of its occurrence. Which family members will be present during the procedure, when and where it will take place, options for handling the pet's remains, how the family members may want to say good-bye or provide a memorial for their pet, and how and with whom they will spend time immediately after the euthanasia are all important issues which should be discussed.
How will I know when it is time?
Knowing when euthanasia should be considered depends on your pet's health as well as your own. It is often helpful to look at the quality of life your pet is experiencing. Does your pet still enjoy eating and other simple pleasures? Is your pet able to respond to you in a normal way? Is your pet experiencing more pain than pleasure?
Dr. Smith examining a dog in the veterinary officeYou will be able to make a much better decision, and be more comfortable in your decision if you get as much information as possible regarding your pet's condition. If your pet is sick, ask about the treatment options, possible outcomes, and chances of recovery. In most instances, you will not need to make the decision immediately, so take time to think about what you should do. Discuss the decision with all of the other family members, including any children. Although it is a human tendency to question our decisions afterward, if you know you made informed decisions it will reduce the 'what ifs' you may tend to ask yourself. Decide what you want your pet's death to be like.
As hard as it is, you need to consider the financial cost as well as the emotional cost of continuing to care for your pet. Do not feel guilty if you cannot afford expensive treatment; there are many people who cannot. It does not make you a 'bad' owner or one who loves their pet any less.
You need to consider what is best for your pet, but also what is best for you and your family. Are you physically able to manage your pet's care? Do you feel ready to say good-bye, or do you need some more time? What will make it possible for you to feel comfortable regarding the decision?
Hospice
Home-based hospice care is becoming available through some veterinary hospitals and volunteer organizations. The concept behind pet hospice is to provide comfortable care for a terminally-ill pet at home. Such care may be helpful when the family members of a pet need more time to adjust to the imminent death of their pet. Hospice can be especially helpful in providing children time to understand that the family pet is dying, or giving time for a geographically distant family member to come home to say good-bye and provide mutual support to the other family members.
Euthanasia for behavior problems
New medications and research in animal behavior, as well as more specialists in the animal behavior field make euthanizing pets for behavior reasons much less common today. In some instances, however, after trying multiple alternatives, some owners may decide the safest and most humane option for them and their pet is euthanasia.
People who have had to make this decision often feel guilty and have feelings of failure. These need to be resolved before true healing can take place. Other people may say things such as, 'Good, you're rid of that problem.' This lack of understanding from others can also make the grieving process more difficult.
If a pet needed to be euthanized because of a behavior problem, children may irrationally fear the same could happen to them if they misbehave. Make it clear to any child involved that misbehavior in children is treated differently than misbehavior in pets.
What happens during euthanasia?
A veterinarian and the owner of a dog talkingEuthanasia is a peaceful and virtually pain-free process, but it is best to understand what will occur and how your pet's body may react. Knowing these things may help you make your decision regarding euthanasia, and make the process less traumatic for you.
To perform the euthanasia, first a catheter or needle will be inserted into a vein in your pet's front or back leg. If your pet has been very sick, or has had many intravenous injections, it may take a little time for the veterinarian to find the best location.
Some veterinarians may then inject a drug into the vein which will place your pet in a state of relaxation. The actual drug used to perform the euthanasia is a concentrated solution of pentobarbital, which will also be injected into the vein. In most cases, the injection works very rapidly (5 seconds). The injection causes the pet's heart to stop beating. In some instances, the time between the injection and the death of the pet may be slightly longer. This is especially true if the pet has poor circulation.
In some cases, the pet's muscles may relax or contract after the pet has died. This can be very disconcerting if you are not aware of this possibility ahead of time. The muscles of the urinary bladder and the anus may relax, and your pet may void urine and stool. Involuntary contractions of muscles may result in the pet appearing to gasp, or move a leg. Again, remember your pet is not aware of these things happening since they happen after death. In almost all cases, the pet's eyes will not close after death.
Knowing what happens during euthanasia may help you and other family members decide if they want to be present.
Who should be present during euthanasia?
Many people wish to be present during their pet's euthanasia to say good-bye, to prevent feeling guilty for 'abandoning' their pet, and to know what the death was like so they will not wonder about it in the future. Each individual, however, will need to decide for him or herself whether they want to be present during the euthanasia. Sometimes friends may encourage you one way or another, but it is ultimately your decision, and you need to do what is best for you.
If you do not feel you can be present during the euthanasia, please do not feel you are abandoning your pet. Your pet has experienced your love throughout his life, and if he could talk, you can imagine he would say he understands. Your pet will not be alone, the veterinarian and staff will be there with your pet, talking to him and petting him during the procedure.
In many cases, the individual family members wish to have some time alone with the pet both before and/or after the euthanasia. If you wish to be alone with your pet, you may still want a friend to accompany you to the veterinarian's office to provide support.
Whether children should be present during the euthanasia depends on the age and maturity of the child, as well as other factors. Many experts feel it is best if children under the age of 8 are not present during the procedure, but can see and say good-bye to the pet before and after the euthanasia. If a child is to be present, it is vital that the child be counseled ahead of time by a child psychologist, or another trained professional so she knows what to expect. It is also helpful if the veterinarian or staff can talk with the child and explain what will happen and why. Parents need to be ready to provide support and answer any question the child may have.
Where and when
In some instances, you may have a choice as to where the euthanasia will occur. Some veterinarians make housecalls, and will agree to euthanize your pet at home. Some people prefer being outside, and if your veterinary hospital has a private outdoor area, you may find this will best meet your needs.
In general, if people are having their pet euthanized at a veterinarian's office, they prefer a time when the clinic is less busy, perhaps at the end of the day. Choose a time of day which will allow you to prepare yourself prior to the euthanasia, and have time for yourself afterwards. Some people prefer a Friday, so they can have the weekend to themselves; others think they may feel more lonely during the weekend and prefer the beginning of the week.
Saying good-bye
People say good-bye to their pet in many ways, and at different times during the euthanasia. You may:
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Say good-bye before your pet enters the exam room.
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Accompany your pet into the room, say good-bye prior to the euthanasia, and then leave before the euthanasia is performed.
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Say good-bye in the exam room prior to the euthanasia, leave, and then return to the exam room after the euthanasia to say your final good-bye.
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Be present at the euthanasia and say good-bye during the procedure.
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